Kikelomo Abati, wife of veteran journalist and media personality Dr. Reuben Abati, has shared details about her past relationships, revealing that she was divorced twice before finding happiness in her current marriage.
Speaking during a recent interview on The Morayo Show, Mrs. Abati opened up about the painful realities of her previous unions and the lessons she learned along the way.
According to her, her first marriage ended in heartbreak after she discovered something she never expected.
The journalist’s wife disclosed that she found out her first husband was gay, a truth she said was hidden from her before they got married.
“For a woman who have divorced twice, first of all, I married a gay person without me knowing. Let me put it out there,” she said during the interview.
Her revelation has since become a major talking point online, with many Nigerians expressing sympathy over what she described as a painful discovery.
Just as her first marriage was shocking, the second, according to her, was equally difficult. Mrs. Abati explained that her second husband was both abusive and unfaithful, making the marriage unbearable.
She described him as a “biggest philanderer and abuser,” noting that the relationship eventually collapsed under the weight of those challenges.
Despite the trauma she experienced, she said she does not regret either of the marriages. In a surprising twist, Mrs. Abati said the two failed marriages gave her the most important blessings of her life, her children.
She explained that although the journey was painful, it shaped her into the person she is today and prepared her for the stable marriage she now enjoys. According to her, the lessons she learned from those experiences helped her recognise and appreciate genuine love when it came.
She described her life story as difficult but rewarding, adding that she now lives in a place of peace and stability.
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