A Nigerian journalist identified as Efio-Ita Nyok has extensively shared his opinion about the trending clip involving a matured woman and her younger companion.
The video serving rounds online has spurred a variety of comments from netizens who can’t help but weigh in on the saga.
It involved a bedroom action between the woman and the boy, said to be only 16 years old.
Amid the trending saga, journalist Efio-Ita Nyok shared his two cents, noting that the boy is a minor and couldn’t have given consent in any manner.
He affirmed that the boy doesn’t know what he’s doing rather he was used. He further suggested immediate rehabilitation for the boy and called for the lady to be arrested and charged.
The man emphasized that what happened was rape. He argued that the incident justifies the fact that male gender also suffer sexual, physical, psychological, emotional abuse and gender-based violence.
In his words:
“MEN ARE ALSO VICTIMS
This boy is a minor who couldn’t have given consent,
This boy doesn’t know what he’s doing,
Despite the seeming obvious pleasure,
This boy has been repeatedly and sexually bullied by this so-called teacher,
He’s groomed;
His life was a means to an end,
The end solely to satisfy the depravity of that 33 year old woman,
Not an end in itself,
So, he must undergo rehabilitation;
This incident is unconscionable,
The 33 year old woman must be punished by the existing necessary laws,
She’d be prosecuted and thrown into jail;
This is rape,
This is sexual abuse by a 33 year old woman,
Against a 16 year old boy,
He doesn’t know what has happened to him,
This boy’s life will never remain the same again.
This is evidence that men/boys suffer sexual, physical, psychological, emotional abuse and gender-based violence.
Dr. Efio-Ita Nyok
Gender Parity Advocate
Calabar
5th December 2025
#DiaryOfAnAfricanBlogger
#rape
#men.”
See his post below:
